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Sunday, April 24, 2011

Project "Pant Chronicles"

Barber's Shop next to a French Restaurant 


As I opened the door with the sign of 'Him' - the wind chimes ringed and alarmed the barber that a customer has arrived. It was a neat and clean premise with a subtle European feel to it. A man dressed in white chef like dress greeted me and offered the chair. As I sat down, he quickly tied a white string of napkin around my neck and then the cover (or whatever they call it). While he was analyzing the length of my hair, I asked him if he takes Debit or Credit cards. He politely said, 'only cash sir', adding that Credit Card machines are expensive for his small business. I have almost lost the touch with Cash money since I have arrived in Canada, almost everywhere you can use plastic money. I excused myself due to the lack of Cash and took his directions on where the nearest ATM was. It was down the road at the port place mall, he said he will be open till 4 and I am more than welcome to visit again.


Erwin, the barber, had an accent which I almost thought with most certainty, belonged to Russia. At one point  I was almost certain that his name will be Andre or Ivan. However, to my surprise, he was born in Canada and raised in north America, Mexico and Australia. He had the most interesting stories to tell. His father migrated from Austria during world war II. Erwin told me that his father saved many Jews during that time. His father also wrote a book about that period which was quite a tome as per his hand suggestion, nobody published that, probably because most of it was naked truth. His parent's ran a business of antiques on the very border of U.S.A and Mexico. When his mother was about to give birth to Erwin, his father had her fly to Canada. After his birth, they were both back in U.S. Erwin lost his mother when he was only 2 year's old in a Car accident. While he started snipping my hair off my head slowly, he told me that he has been a chef for most of his life and he also did plumbing for good 6 years. I was petrified all of a sudden as my immediate thought was : is my neck under the scissor of a jack of all trades? He told me that he has lived most of his life in California and also how he despised the money mongering drive of that place. When he was a few years old, his father visited Mexico after the death of his mother  - there he encountered a  nice lady who instantly fell in love with his father and Erwin. They got married and Erwin spent 15 years of his childhood in Mexico - his father and foster mother still live there.  Erwin himself pointed out that most people get boggled by the sound of his accent, but he said that his accent is a mix of all the accents he heard during his lifetime with a base tone of Spanish. So, his accent is from nowhere or from everywhere. 
After getting fed up with the competitive life of California, Erwin came to Canada - fell in love with Vancouver  Island and especially with Nanaimo. He stayed at Dorchester hotel for a week and then applied for a job in Wendy's. While he was working as a chef at Wendy's, he got another job with a Call center. Everything was going fine, until his boss promoted someone else to the post which was promised to Erwin. He left the call center job and started looking for another engagement. Meanwhile, during the call center job, he found a perfect lady for himself and got married. Till now, I was getting an idea that this man is a multipurpose tool or an all-rounder to be precise. He exceeded my expectations when he told me that as VIU is the only college in Canada which has a hairdressing course, he enrolled in it because he felt that a barber's job is honest and balanced. He did his course from there and then opened this barber's shop in downtown (I was relieved as now I knew that my head is in a trained and certified hand). I couldn't believe how somebody can make a transition from being a plumber to a chef to a call center rep to finally being a barber. There is no relation and no logical sequence in this chain of professions, yet somehow he was good in each one of them if not prodigious. Life can be so random sometime - and I thought that I am the only weird guy who made a transition from being a musician to being an MBA. In fact, the chain of my profession have a link - management - as a band we always lacked of a good manager and while studying MBA I learned so many things which I could have applied into our profession.


Recently Erwin's wife met with an accident and in the process they lost their only Car, wife was safe. Now Erwin is teaching his wife - how to ride a bus, how to understand the bus schedule - and if he can make it - his wife might use the insurance money to go to a cruise instead of buying another car - which he never drives anyways - he takes a bus.


I got a decent haircut, paid him $15.00 and promised him that I will be back for another haircut and some more stories.


Sometimes, a simple small talk by a barber takes the shape of a panoramic view of a life time of experiences which gives us knowledge about finding balance - following your true calling - and accepting life as a random turn of events in which you can play your role by giving your best  to it instead of competing it for worldly possessions. 


Cheers everybody....will come back with some more.
Thanks for reading.
Adios!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Project "Pant Chronicles"

Hi there...
again....after a long time....I got time and motivation to write something on my blog.
The fact is....my life is not very happening...or....I don't see it as happening...that is why I don't have stories to tell on a regular basis.
But believe me...I don't stop....I never stop in reinventing my self...I come back...and I will keep coming back no matter how many times I have a loss of stories.

Today, however, I have few things to say.
Life is good....I am working...learning new stuff...continuously interacting with new people and experiencing a lot.
Some other things are secretly cooking in my life which would be too early to reveal...but there is  a successful progress going on.

I once posted a status message on Facebook :


I hate the fact that I was born in the rubbish era of 80's.... If only it
was possible to go back and re-born in 50's, 60's or early 70's...I 
want to scream while looking at Beatles...I wanna sway in the tunes 
of Simon and Garfunkel...and wanna cry when Peter, Paul and Mary 
sing "...a dragon lives forever, but not so little boys"....and feel 
elated when Pundit Ravi Shankar plays in the Monterey Pop 
festival...
September 30, 2010 at 8:14am
It is very very true that those 3 decades were the most beautiful decades last century has seen. I absolutely adore movies from that era or movies about that era. I mean...what can ever match movie Dr. Zhivago's cinematography....Lara's Theme....Yesterday...the song by Beatles...beautiful vintage cars...cobbled streets of Europe...Manna Dey...Kishore Kumar...Mhd. Rafi...Wednesday Morning 3 A.M by Paul Simon and Art Garfunkel...I mean I can keep on counting...
I got so fascinated by Simon & Garfunkel once in 2005 that I thought of making a pencil sketch of them (which is my childhood hobby...I rarely exercise it)......so....I went ahead and made it:

Copyright: Vibhor Pant

I mean to say....there are so many wonderful things about that era...related to art...music...poetry..cinema.. people...events....that I can keep on discussing which makes me utterly blissful!
When I was playing with Talaash in India...we used to sing many old songs...we were totally in love with that era's music. Frankly speaking...without being rude....people who don't understand these classics or the beauty of it...are tone deaf... color blind...gastronomically challenged....and don't have a taste...I will be honest here.
At that point of time...the universe was somehow making people do totally phenomenal work in their fields...and there is a spiritual similarity found in lots of masterpieces.. in very subtle aspects...the way V Shantaram highlighted his eyes in Do aankhein baarah haath...is very similar to Omar Sharif's highlighted eyes in Dr. Zhivago...There is a poetic similarity in 'I started a Joke..' by Bee gees and 'Fool on the hill' by Paul McCartney...etc.
The work that was produced in that era had a longevity in it that can't be matched...and it certainly doesn't mean that people are not producing good work today or were not producing good work in 80's and 90's..but it is and was seldom and rare. I can never stop praising Vishal Bhardwaj for what he has done in Indian Cinema...his movies induce honesty in storytelling. I can safely say that Indian Cinema is truly turning into a new leaf in the decade of 2011.
But, it will take a fortunate mix of people, atmosphere, world events and sensibilities in creating the magic of 50's, 60's and 70's again.

In the end, Japan is facing a great tragedy. Please do what you can and pray for people over there...that piece of land has been hit by too many calamities despite of the high level of progression it has seen. May god bless all the souls who lost their lives in the wake of this Godzillian earthquake.

Finally, I will rest my case here me-lord....yes..I truly believe that I was born in the worst decade ever..that was 80's...but I thank god that he gave me an eye to appreciate the glorious time I missed by a decade!
Cheers people....if anyone is reading this!
Peace.










Friday, January 21, 2011

Project : "Pant Chronicles"

Long time since my last blog...
thats how life keeps you busy sometimes...
A lot happened during the break-from-blog (i know nobody is reading it so it doesn't matter)..
However, I got hired by a very good telecommunications company...which is good.
I am definitely happy...because of a lot of good things happening...
My eating schedule is right on time...(with some ups and downs here and there)...
My tooth aches badly...I will go to the Dr. very soon.. ;-)
and yes...I got a 3 years long work permit!!! Yay!! big tension solved...and congrats to all my friends who got the same...(others must not get disheartened...god has funny ways)
I had a very good time working at Best Buy...learned a lot of good things (apart from the fact that Canada's cellular industry is ripping people over here).
I am starting a completely new tenure at Shaw from 25th Jan, 2011....and I'm excited about it.
Today I completely updated my finance records..(which was a pain too). Funny thing...as soon as you start saving ...there is this overwhelming feeling of counting your pebbles...again...and again...and again....human nature I guess.

There is no point in trying to satisfy everybody....because in the end there will be someone...trying to dilute your small wins...by calling them 'small'. I like winning in small proportions...it keeps me balanced...and somehow helps in appreciating and being thankful about whatever I have achieved. I believe that success is the only difference between action and inaction...and humility is the element which is instrumental in maintaining the action-induced success.
This year is going to be very important for me....there is a lot to do.
I don't worry about the results...or failures...I only hope and pray...that every time I fail...I am able to stand back again.....and that is what matters in the end.

Peace.




Friday, December 10, 2010

Project : "Pant Chronicles"

Days 4, 5 & 6

I am writing this post combining 3 days at once. This is because...not much happened in these 3 days. However, few important things happened.
Let me start with the 4th day, the day after my important interview. Nothing special happened on this day, except I was at my friends' place for the whole day as I always do whenever I am free and they are too kind to have me all the time. In the evening, the meeting with the trainer went well (that reminds me that I need to reschedule my next meeting with him). I also refilled my grocery stock with some important items.

The 5th day was a bit tiring and stress-full. I was at my present job and the first bad-day at job happened. I learned and revised some important things. Training is an important aspect of HR....and HR is 'the' most important aspect of any business. I have read that...but now I am experiencing that. Lack of training at your job can end up in serious displeasure with your self. It is not a conducive state for a better performance. Let's say the 'self-confidence' is the first bicycle in the queue of bicycles, a single kick onto that can result in the fall of the whole stack. Training insures that the first bicycle can take all the kicks and still stays upright. In the end Rajma Chawal (Kidney beans with rice) came to my rescue. Felt good after cooking it.

The 6th day, today, brings me to a very simple yet great realization. We all talk about God, some from a believer's perspective, some non-believers and some from agnostic's. In the end it seems difficult to agree upon a single perspective. For believers, God is always a tool...a savior against all their difficulties. I don't know about non-believers and agnostics but I am sure that if we isolate God from all the surrounding beliefs around him created by man, for example religion....he cannot be too bad for non-believers and agnostics too.
Let's just say...God is a great idea....all the beautiful and great things in life created by man started with an idea. A great invention, a beautiful piece of art...a splendid movie...they all live in the form of an idea before they take the shape of reality. May be God is not a reality for everybody, but he surely can be a great idea for anyone, with a possibility of blooming into reality with time.
And the most beautiful thing is.....your reality will be unique...may be in the form of success...may be love...may be peace.....but unique from others!

Cheers!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Project : "Pant Chronicles"

Day 2

The first day itself was full of activities. I made a meal planner, a prep-sheet and fixed my appointment with the trainer at the college gym.
The next day started with an early Riyaaz  in the morning. It felt nice after a long time, practicing in the morning. Now that I have time, I can do it more often.
Secondly, I had a very important interview...which went well, despite of ugly rain in Nanaimo.
Everyday has its ups and downs....this day was full of several small downs and few big ups. In the end, it all went good.
One thing that I learned....Patience is the key...to unlock peace in life.
Thanks for my first comment Meetu :-)

More later...

Cheers!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Project : "Pant Chronicles"

Day 1

Today I am starting this series of blogs which will reflect my effort of improving different aspects of my life throughout the upcoming year.
There are different sections to improve upon in my life. These sections are:
  1. Music : Practice and Learn more!
  2. Food & Health: Peace in stomach, peace in mind!
  3. Fitness: Exercise the fat out from the wrong places!
  4. Organization: My life organized!
  5. Finance: Save where you can and spend where you must!
  6. Career: Do your best and excel with full interest!
  7. Family: Get married by the end of 2011!
7 is a magical number and these 7 aspects of my life are definitely going to improve me as a person.
I am excited about them! I want to share my journey with anybody who wants to help themselves in finding the right pace of life.

Cheers!

Vibs.

Saturday, August 7, 2010

History: The Torchbearer!

History entails what we as human beings have done in the past, and are capable to do in the future; from the dark bunker of a dictator who finally shots himself out of complete paranoia of loosing power, to a physically weak man's triumph of pushing a nation towards its own independence by the means of only non-violence and then getting shot in the chest by one of his own countrymen accusing him of misjudgment.
Despite of all the bloodbaths in the past, all the great events have some very specific messages to learn from. I personally believe that while human kind is still struggling with astrology (as a half science) in one hand and Stephen Hawking's A brief History of Time in another, in order to derive or ascertain what future might be, it should always come back to take a look at its past. An individual, by every means, should strive to know what all happened in the past on this planet because, whatever happened in the past, shaped the future which became our present. If one can understand the pattern, then one can also understand the natural track of events and thus a better decision making consciousness can be achieved.
I reckon, the History of this planet is the torchbearer for all our futures. We must take this torch and look into our future and present as well with a great sense of responsibility. We must derive our decisions based on calculations that stems out from the history, calculations that are in tandem with todays scenario but based on past events.

Nevertheless, the great sense of responsibility should not belittle the joy of delving into a great story and the learnings within.